M X y M A G |Amanda Mandii, Daddy's Girl
Written By: TekNiq |Published: 29.11.009 |

MXyMAg.com, this is the space where sexy lives in various forms, as defined by our cultures sexiest women and as re interpreted by you (the reader). Today is another week, another day, another dollar and another interview that broadens the definition of sexy. Her name is Amanda Mandii and she will always be daddy's little girl but in our world she is all grown up, posing, half naked, in a sexy mocha bathing suit, wet, from the baby oil to be marvelled upon by tons of strangers. I can only imagine how her father would feel about that.

I think that this is the first time I'm getting a chance to look at it and assess this as a future father of a beautiful baby girl who is going to be more of an asshole than I am (sigh). What if one of these women was my daughter? Would I allow her to do this? Half Naked? MXyMAG.com? I remember being asked this before by a girl-friend in which I immediately replied. YES and she got angrier and the cussing became more screwed (there walked away another one).

But here is my logic, if she is over the age of 18 what can I do to her? Cuss her? Disown her? If I try to punish her, then what? Things get worst and now she is in the GRINDER without the support system of the father who anchors her. Naturally she’ll start looking for another man to replace the father’s spot. Often the replacement is a crook with a crooked promise that leads to breaking the spirit down. It’s a lose, lose situation but in some losing situations you can decide how much you want to lose, right?

So therefore, even if I don't feel comfortable about my baby doing it I would have to be a father and show her what she is facing and why. If I was a father to a baby girl I would be showing her that from day one. Hell, I would be all in her ear from the day I learn her mother is pregnant. Telling other women who are giving birth to a boy to keep their belly away from my baby's mother belly. I would buy two dolls and call one Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown and show her what not to do. Instil values of self-respect, values of life, and values of people. Then there are actions versus consequences. Right and wrong and responsibility. I would make her understand what pain means and I would try to treat her mother like any man should treat her, with respect.

But it's unfortunate because she too will need to touch the iron while the iron is hot and get burned to feel the reality of it all. Women face burns regardless if they make the right decisions, or not. But if I did my job right as a father then she would be anchored and grounded regardless of the obstacles she faces and another important part would be that the symbol of me being there for her would let her know that no matter how hard she falls that she will always be able to return home to dance with her father. Take it Ez

Introduce
My name is a Amanda Mandii, I am the host of an online radio show on MKZ Radio