But it is unfortunate because intimacy is what is needed to go past the stage of effing, sexing, and get to making love. Making love is the only stage where two can have “sex” without needing to get physical, and it is at this stage where men (and women) reach the pure peaks of ecstasy and therefore are fulfilled longer before they need to refuel again. Another layer that adds to the description of intimacy is through the literal representation of our flesh opening up to give way to our hearts, and letting someone’s hand caress it in a way that doesn’t disturb the tribal beat